GvSparx

मैंने शायद कहीं पढ़ा था, मन्दिरोँ से ज़्यादा सच्ची प्रार्थना अस्पतालों मे की जाती हैँ; विवाह घर से ज़्यादा शिद्दत से हवाई अड्डों और रेलवे स्टेशनों पर लोग एक दूजे को गले लगाते हैं। विचित्र परन्तु सत्य (यह लिखते समय मुझे भी उतना ही विचित्र लग जितना आपको पढते समय)। कैसा लगता है जब आप किसी को विदा करने से पहले गले लगाते हैं। कैसा लगता होगा उस माँ को जब वो अपनी सन्तान को सरहद पर भेजते हुए, उस पिता को जब वो अपनी बेटी को विदा करते हुए और उस लड़की को जो मीलों दूर जा रहे अपने प्रेमी को गले लगाती है, शायद आखरी बार।

Lovers spend nights thinking about what to wear, what to say, where to go to make it a perfect set up for a lovely day with their beloved. But the fact is you don't want her to look at your suit but your eyes. When you talk you don't always want her to listen but to get lost in your voice. You don't necessarily want her to admire the place you go to, but being with you should make that place heavenly for her. She should feel your presence when she's with you. Your presence should linger around in her cryptic imagination when she's without you. One of the most underestimated and least prepared superpower that holds the key is touch. By  touch I mean touch, not grasping, not holding, just touching. Gentle, tender, little ticklish one would do nicely. It's like the lighter your touch is the more exciting it is for her. I don't understand people being softer on their phones than their girls. Even when you hold her hand, your fingers should be gentle, moving slowly and calmly. It keeps her senses awake and attention on you and not on what's coming up and where you are going. Remember a high five would never give her goosebumps a very light handshake might. Replace "he" with "she" and "her" with "him" and this thing holds equally good.